alt.poly

[stonebender]

I really shouldn't let people bother me as much as I do. Especially, when it comes to public online forums. Just when I started feeling a little more comfortable participating I get slapped down. I know I need a thicker skin and sometimes I can cobble one together. Am I really being insensitive?

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[dbubley.livejournal.com]

I'm not on alt.poly, but I have fought with you before and probably will again. You're neither disissive nor insensitive. If anything, you worry too much about how the other person is feeling.

If you were truly dismissive, I doubt that you'd care enough to create this post. You'd just tell the other persaon where to get off (at least in your own head) and dismiss any further thoughts on the incident. That's not necessarily a bad reaction in my book, but I know you find it really hard to do ost of the time.

[stonebender.livejournal.com]

I'm not on alt.poly, but I have fought with you before and probably will again. You're neither disissive nor insensitive. If anything, you worry too much about how the other person is feeling.

I appreciate that Betty

If you were truly dismissive, I doubt that you'd care enough to create this post. You'd just tell the other persaon where to get off (at least in your own head) and dismiss any further thoughts on the incident. That's not necessarily a bad reaction in my book, but I know you find it really hard to do most of the time.

I thought I'd done that. I guess its something I have to "re-do" on occasion.